teslacoils2006
2006-01-29 21:01:29 UTC
Any cure would simply topple the empire or pyramid built by the
freemasons. They could no longer be emotionally unattached to the
damage they have done.
Narcissism is defined as self love. Which can be acted out as postive
or negative. Positive self love can be the setting of boundaries and
standing up for oneself. negative self love can be reflected in the
blaming of others for your mistakes or attitudes or the over emphasis
of yourself and your accomplishiments. negative self love reflects an
inner pain that a person is trying to cover up. It is negative because
it has no basis in truth and it is ussually enacted as an unfair
comparison that can be hurtful to others. Narcissism in general is not
extreme and everyone has positive and negative aspects of self love
Narcissism becomes Narcissistic Personality Disorder when a person is
in such a deep denial of their short comings that they create an
illusion of perfection that they uphold and defend with abuse, mind
games, lies, and the collection of superficial objects of status or
power. It is a personality disorder because people with NPD view the
people close to them as extensions of their own egos who have specific
roles to play in support of the grand illusion. Unfortunately the roles
people close to them are to play often change erratically due to the
bipolar nature of NPD. people with NPD are either on top of the world
or everyone is out to get them or are ruining their life. NPD people
are very closed minded about getting therapy and uphold that they "know
who they are" and expect you to "accept them for who they are" because
"they don't need to change". NPD people will not acknowledge abuse when
confronted and that can be very frustrating... when I confronted my
father he just said "Oh you don't have to worry about that stuff, I am
the one who has to carry the guilt of what I may have done." NPD people
like to throw around the phrase "stop living in the past", or "get on
with your life already". I huge and frustrating moment in my path came
about 5 years ago when my father had just finished degrading me and I
asked him why he felt he needed to degrade me and he said I was living
in the past. no more than a few seconds = the past... NPD or people who
are very narcissistic will often blame you for their bad moods or
actions... "see what you made me do"... the big thing about NPD is that
the people who have it will use your love for them as a manipulative
tool to control you. they will act like they need you and then they
will abuse you and blame you for making them abuse you. Narcissist are
created from abuse and alcoholics. Narcissist also create other
narcisists, codependents to narcissists, angry people, and suicides...
Narcissist seek status or simpathy and often create drama...
Narcissists will try to run other peoples lives. Narcissism runs in
families and the shame used to inforce the narcissist illusion often
keeps it hidden... narcissists have a tendency to talk about themselves
alot or to give you unsolicited advice.
NPD is a mental illness that is easy to overlook because people with it
are very high functioning and ussually pilars in communities. Dr. Phil
has strong Narcissistic leanings which he got from his father. most
presidents and celebrities are narcissists. most heros and idols are
narcissists so as a society people don't want to see it. it is okay to
see the narcissism of Hitler or Osama Bin Ladin... both of whom were
abused as children... but harder to see the narcissism of our heros or
our parents. especially when you were raised to be a part of their
illusion. chances are if you feel like you don't fit in the world then
you might want to look into this.
I am no expert and it is late as I write this so don't take my word for
it... check into this for yourself...
some books:
"Children of the Self absorbed"
"The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists"
"Emotional Vampires"
freemasons. They could no longer be emotionally unattached to the
damage they have done.
Narcissism is defined as self love. Which can be acted out as postive
or negative. Positive self love can be the setting of boundaries and
standing up for oneself. negative self love can be reflected in the
blaming of others for your mistakes or attitudes or the over emphasis
of yourself and your accomplishiments. negative self love reflects an
inner pain that a person is trying to cover up. It is negative because
it has no basis in truth and it is ussually enacted as an unfair
comparison that can be hurtful to others. Narcissism in general is not
extreme and everyone has positive and negative aspects of self love
Narcissism becomes Narcissistic Personality Disorder when a person is
in such a deep denial of their short comings that they create an
illusion of perfection that they uphold and defend with abuse, mind
games, lies, and the collection of superficial objects of status or
power. It is a personality disorder because people with NPD view the
people close to them as extensions of their own egos who have specific
roles to play in support of the grand illusion. Unfortunately the roles
people close to them are to play often change erratically due to the
bipolar nature of NPD. people with NPD are either on top of the world
or everyone is out to get them or are ruining their life. NPD people
are very closed minded about getting therapy and uphold that they "know
who they are" and expect you to "accept them for who they are" because
"they don't need to change". NPD people will not acknowledge abuse when
confronted and that can be very frustrating... when I confronted my
father he just said "Oh you don't have to worry about that stuff, I am
the one who has to carry the guilt of what I may have done." NPD people
like to throw around the phrase "stop living in the past", or "get on
with your life already". I huge and frustrating moment in my path came
about 5 years ago when my father had just finished degrading me and I
asked him why he felt he needed to degrade me and he said I was living
in the past. no more than a few seconds = the past... NPD or people who
are very narcissistic will often blame you for their bad moods or
actions... "see what you made me do"... the big thing about NPD is that
the people who have it will use your love for them as a manipulative
tool to control you. they will act like they need you and then they
will abuse you and blame you for making them abuse you. Narcissist are
created from abuse and alcoholics. Narcissist also create other
narcisists, codependents to narcissists, angry people, and suicides...
Narcissist seek status or simpathy and often create drama...
Narcissists will try to run other peoples lives. Narcissism runs in
families and the shame used to inforce the narcissist illusion often
keeps it hidden... narcissists have a tendency to talk about themselves
alot or to give you unsolicited advice.
NPD is a mental illness that is easy to overlook because people with it
are very high functioning and ussually pilars in communities. Dr. Phil
has strong Narcissistic leanings which he got from his father. most
presidents and celebrities are narcissists. most heros and idols are
narcissists so as a society people don't want to see it. it is okay to
see the narcissism of Hitler or Osama Bin Ladin... both of whom were
abused as children... but harder to see the narcissism of our heros or
our parents. especially when you were raised to be a part of their
illusion. chances are if you feel like you don't fit in the world then
you might want to look into this.
I am no expert and it is late as I write this so don't take my word for
it... check into this for yourself...
some books:
"Children of the Self absorbed"
"The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists"
"Emotional Vampires"